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  • Politics Is Like Hiring A Hitman
    by Scott Woods inPolitical on2020-08-13

    For me, politics is like hiring a hitman. I have values and things I care about. I care enough about them to at least bother voting for 5 minutes every year for one issue or another. And because I care at least that much, I vote for people who align with the ability to realize the things I care about.

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  • Punching Above Our Weight
    by Roger Madison Jr. inPolitical on2020-07-24

    I believe our vote is the punctuation of our voice. Without that resounding exclamation mark, I believe our voices are just incoherent noise.

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  • BLACK PROGRESS AMIDST SOCIAL CHAOS
    by Roger Madison Jr. inPolitical on2020-06-16

    Recent events have raised the profile of historical injustice and inequities here in the USA. The entire world has taken note of the fact that BLACK LIVES MATTER.   We invite all of our friends to engage in actions that result in the greatest movement for change in our history. It is imperative that we take advantage of this opportunity to affect a positive change by ACTING IN OUR SELF-INTERESTS.

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  • Living in a Black No-Man's Land
    by Roger Madison Jr. inOur Community on2019-10-28

    There are many narratives that define the Black experience in America in this 2nd decade of the 21st century. Our striving over the centuries of our sojourn in this nation is a tapestry of every human experience -- oppression, enslavement, forced assimilation, dehumanization, exclusion, segregation, isolation, struggle, perseverance, achievement, excellence, celebration, mourning, despair, progress, setbacks, lynching, assassination, genocide, terror, self-hatred, low esteem, pride,...

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  • Fighting Racism
    by Scott Woods inOur Community on2018-10-25

    I had a boss who was racist. Not an outright bigot, of course; her toolbox was more subtle than most. We bumped heads a lot over inconsequential things. She frequently couldn’t keep my name out her mouth. Lot of gaslighting. You know…2018 style. I tried a lot of ways to combat or navigate her issues. None of them worked, and that’s saying a lot because I’m really good at fighting racism. But at the end of the day – every day – she was my boss, I had to deal with her, and that was that. Finally I...

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Help Yourself For Free!

Have You Visited Your Local Library Recently?

The other day I called a friend to wish her a happy birthday and she informed me that she'd spent the day at a life coaching workshop offered by her church and she was all fired up, ready to take on the world.  I asked her: "Would you feel the same way if you had read a book with the same exact information that was presented at the workshop?" She said absolutely not because what made the workshop so powerful was the energy in the room emanating not only from the speakers, but the participants as well. 

Many people like my friend benefit from workshops, lectures and other group settings. Others enjoy listening to self-improvement tapes and CDs in their car while waiting in traffic. As for me I'm rather introverted not to mention a visual learner. While in the past I've profited from attending lectures and listening to tapes and CDs, ultimately I prefer a good book above and beyond anything else. 

There are so many benefits to reading for self-improvement.  Books are much more convenient and available. With a book you can move along at your own pace.  And for me it's easier to go back and locate quotes in a book rather than rooting around for something specific on an audio medium. With a book I can skip chapters that don't pertain to my situation, which is not possible when you're sitting through a lecture.

The best part of all, if you take the time to learn how the modern library functions, you can easily embark on a self-help program that meets your specific needs and pay nothing at all.  The friend I mentioned above was able to attend the church's life coaching workshop free of charge, but I've seen many other workshops and lectures that are very expensive and prohibitive.  The good news is that any self-help expert who would charge $300 for a day long workshop will most likely have written a book that is available to you at your library.

Most libraries are online now. Gone are the days of searching through the card catalog (perish the thought!) and then rummaging through dusty stacks only to find the book you're looking for isn't where it's supposed to be.  Now you can search for books online, put them on hold and pick them up when they're ready. Completely hassle free!

Let me add that I do believe in investing financially in your self-help work, but in these tough economic times, if you don't have it, you don't have it.  I'm very grateful that the library provides a valuable alternative.

 

Leah Mullen, Author of AGAIN AND AGAIN
Please visit my site http://www.leahmullen.com/ blog: http://mylifeisapageturner.blogspot.com/ life coaching column: http://www.bellaonline.com/site/lifecoaching Follow me on Twitter: http://twitter.com/leah_mullen Do we read the same books? check out my shelf http://www.shelfari.com/leah_mullen Visit my profile on http://www.amazon.com/ to see my latest book reviews and guides including "Be a Self-Actualized Black Woman!"