One of the topics I address during my seminars is on communication. As a veteran journalist, I know how important it is to convey your message to your audience. You must do it in such a way that they will understand you and appreciate what you have to say. I also know it is equally important to listen to the message being conveyed in order to make sure I report the story accurately.
The same rules apply in a marriage. You have to be an effective communicator AND a good listener. Yelling all the time to get your point across will, more than likely, fall on deaf ears. Also, poor communication skills can lead to a breakdown in your marriage.
In Part II of my keys to a successful marriage, here is my Tip Number Two:
Learn How to Listen: There are always two points of view in a discussion or argument. While you may be adamant about sticking to your point of view, you owe your mate the courtesy and respect to hear him/her out and appreciate their feelings. And, by all means, PAY ATTENTION. Eye contact is very important in making your partner feel like you really are tuned in.
Next Time: Communicate in the Bedroom
