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  • Politics Is Like Hiring A Hitman
    by Scott Woods inPolitical on2020-08-13

    For me, politics is like hiring a hitman. I have values and things I care about. I care enough about them to at least bother voting for 5 minutes every year for one issue or another. And because I care at least that much, I vote for people who align with the ability to realize the things I care about.

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  • Punching Above Our Weight
    by Roger Madison Jr. inPolitical on2020-07-24

    I believe our vote is the punctuation of our voice. Without that resounding exclamation mark, I believe our voices are just incoherent noise.

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  • BLACK PROGRESS AMIDST SOCIAL CHAOS
    by Roger Madison Jr. inPolitical on2020-06-16

    Recent events have raised the profile of historical injustice and inequities here in the USA. The entire world has taken note of the fact that BLACK LIVES MATTER.   We invite all of our friends to engage in actions that result in the greatest movement for change in our history. It is imperative that we take advantage of this opportunity to affect a positive change by ACTING IN OUR SELF-INTERESTS.

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  • Living in a Black No-Man's Land
    by Roger Madison Jr. inOur Community on2019-10-28

    There are many narratives that define the Black experience in America in this 2nd decade of the 21st century. Our striving over the centuries of our sojourn in this nation is a tapestry of every human experience -- oppression, enslavement, forced assimilation, dehumanization, exclusion, segregation, isolation, struggle, perseverance, achievement, excellence, celebration, mourning, despair, progress, setbacks, lynching, assassination, genocide, terror, self-hatred, low esteem, pride,...

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  • Fighting Racism
    by Scott Woods inOur Community on2018-10-25

    I had a boss who was racist. Not an outright bigot, of course; her toolbox was more subtle than most. We bumped heads a lot over inconsequential things. She frequently couldn’t keep my name out her mouth. Lot of gaslighting. You know…2018 style. I tried a lot of ways to combat or navigate her issues. None of them worked, and that’s saying a lot because I’m really good at fighting racism. But at the end of the day – every day – she was my boss, I had to deal with her, and that was that. Finally I...

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Reading for Self-Improvement

   

I have been reading for self-improvement since 1989 when I was taking Black Studies courses at Penn State University. Black Studies taught me concepts like paradigm shifts, reframing and ultimately personal transformation. After this experience I continued to seek answers to life's struggles and dilemmas by reading. Staying true to my academic roots, after college I continue to read history, literary fiction, political and cultural books.

I don't think I truly believed in the actual self-help genre for a long time even after I purchased my first self-help books during the early 1990s.  That is until I discovered Iyanla Vanzant's One Day My Soul Just Opened Up: 40 Days and 40 Nights Toward Spiritual Strength and Personal Growth in 1999.  Later that year I was initiated as a Sacred Woman by Queen Afua, author of Heal Thyself: For Health and Longevity and Sacred Woman: A Guide to Healing the Feminine Body, Mind, and Spirit

Another book that changed my mind about self-help was a parenting book I read in 2000.  Unfortunately I can't recall the name of it, but it taught me how to care for, entertain and teach my toddler while I was pregnant with a second child.  The book was a life saver. Gradually I became hooked on self-help.  I read one right after the other, sometimes two or three at a time in a variety of areas-parenting, self-actualization, job satisfaction, conduct of life etc.

In 2005, I was named the Life Coaching editor for Bellaonline.  Since then I've read and reviewed hundreds of self-help books and interviewed dozens of life coaches and other experts.  My goal is to teach myself and others how-through self-help-we can adopt new habits, change our way of thinking and arrange our lives for success.

 Please visit my blog for more information.